I'm fat!

Why do people think they need to tell you you're overweight.  I do buy clothes so I know what size I am.   I'm trying to think they are coming from a thoughtful place but it sure hurts and makes me feel ashamed.  I had a shareholder of the company offer to pay for me to go to Dr Bernstein clinic.   Sure it works but I have my doubts that it would last either.  I think it's more about lifestyle and being healthy.  I have lost 10 pounds since Christmas which I was happy with but then yesterday when jh suggested dr Bernstein I felt defeated.

Feeling sorry for myself. 

I think my first step is to see a naturopath.